Ray Janaswamy

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Aug 2

Stop Discriminating Against House

my-dovely-darling:

Harry Potter Housism is a real thing.

Put yourself in the shoes of a housism victim. You grew up reading Harry Potter. These books are your childhood, your roots. They built you up, taught you half of everything you know, and they mean basically everything in the world to you. They were your friends when people weren’t. They were there for you when people weren’t. They shaped your views of the world, your views on life, and your views on most other things, too.

So you go on Pottermore to be sorted into a House. To find a family. To find people like you, people you can relate to, people you’re going to feel like you already know really well. Because that is what happens in a house: you find like-minded people and feel less alone in the world because you realize there are so many others out there who can really understand you.

And you answer every question honestly. You pour your heart into the sorting, because you want this to be very special and very true and not just some silly fanmade quiz. And then you get your result…

And it’s Hufflepuff.

And you’re hurt by it. You’re disappointed, extremely. You think, “There’s no way! I’m not stupid! I’m not useless!” Because, stereotypically, Hufflepuffs don’t actually do anything, right? So you take the sorting hat test again. And again. And again. And you get the same result every time.

Or you get Slytherin (like me). And you sit there staring at the snake on your screen and feel disgusted, because NO WAY. “I’m not evil! I’m not a snake. I’m not a coward! I would’ve fought in the Battle of Hogwarts! I’m not a Death Eater!” So you take the test again and again and again. And you get the same result every time. And you can’t believe it.

Or you get Ravenclaw. And you think, “I’m not stuck up! I’m not snobby. I’m not a know-it-all!”

Or you get Gryffindor. “I’m not reckless! I think before I act! I know the difference between brave and stupid!”

And you keep the fact hidden, no matter what house you’re in. And you talk to other Potterheads and everything’s fine and you laugh about inside jokes and tear up at the mention of your favorite characters’ tragedies, and everything’s perfectly cool.

Until that question comes up–

“So what house are you in?”

And you consider lying and saying you’re this house or that house, any house except your house, but you know you can’t fake being in a house. There’s a reason the sorting hat put you in the house it did, and you can’t feign a personality type you’re not, even if you dislike the one you are.

So you tell the truth.

And do you know what happens when you tell the truth? Either they say, “Cool, me too!” or this happens:

“I’m in Gryffindor.”

Your new friends nod. “Okay,” they say monotonely, hiding any emotion, and move on to a different topic. And you can feel the change in the atmosphere. They’re not your friends anymore. They don’t want to be friends with a thoughtless, arrogant asshole.

or

“I’m in Ravenclaw.”

They roll their eyes. And you know what they’re thinking, though they don’t say it out loud. Oh, so you’re one of the smart ones, aren’t you? Probably stuck up and rich, too. They fight their sneers. They talk to you less. They get defensive over stupid things you didn’t even say or mean to imply.

The Slytherins and Hufflepuffs tend to get the worst of it.

“I’m in Hufflepuff.”

They laugh. They laugh at you! And you feel silly. You feel cast-out. Pathetic. Like an absolute loser. Because Hufflepuffs are pathetic losers, right? They’re not worth being friends with, are they? At least, that’s what people think.

or

“I’m in Slytherin.”

And their faces darken. They don’t even try to hide their disgust. You’ve become an automatic enemy. One of my best friends actually gasped when she found out and told me, “But you’re not an evil little snake!” And you have no idea how much that hurts, that she would think I might be an evil little snake just because I share traits with people who commonly are.

And you hide from your house. You’re ashamed to admit what house you’re in. Because people make you feel horrible about it, no matter what that house is. And it needs to stop.

How have we forgotten that Gryffindor was full of deep-thinking individuals, like Remus Lupin? Like Hermione Granger? Say what you will about Dumbledore, but Minerva McGonnagall is head of Gryffindor house!

How have we forgotten that Luna Lovegood, the sweetest and most caring person we met in the books/movies, was a Ravenclaw? Was she a stuck-up rich girl who thought she was far superior mentally to anyone else? No. She was the least discriminant, least stuck-up of the entire cast.

How have we forgotten that Cedric Diggory, who died protecting a rival he’d befriended literally about a minute ago, was a Hufflepuff? That J. K. Rowling herself is a Hufflepuff? That Nymphadora Tonks, who died defending Hogwarts, was a Hufflepuff?

And that her mother, Andromeda, was a Slytherin who married a muggle-born and raised a Hufflepuff? That Sirius Black would totally have been in Slytherin if he hadn’t hated his family so much? That Harry Potter himself was almost placed in Slytherin but chose not to be in this house because someone told him, when he knew so little about the world, that Slytherin bred the wickedest wizards. Merlin, one of the greatest wizards of all time, was a Slytherin. Yet apparently all Slytherins are Death Eaters and “evil little snakes”.

Yeah, Housism tears you up. It really does hurt. No, it’s not racism and people aren’t dying over it. It isn’t affecting our lives in the big, dramatic ways. But it’s affecting kids in other ways, eating them up from the inside, lowering their self-esteem during the most important times of their lives. It’s making social life difficult. And it disgusts me that people laugh at the wreck of someone’s childhood. Stop laughing at Housism.

catchingthefunnies:
“Always
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catchingthefunnies:

Always

catchingthefunnies:

Summer

Me on every holiday

Me on every holiday

letitgoleviosa:

queen-of-quiet-queefs:

rumpled:

Rush Hour bloopers.

This is the cutest thing.

jackie chan is so innocent

the majority of his bloopers anywhere are mainly him messing up his lines because English is like his third language

but he’s a cutie patootie uwu

gang0fwolves:
“jackpowerx:
“savage-affinity:
“Context to the story:
The girl cut her hair once so that she could have bangs. The mother disapproved and decided to cut off 15" of her hair as punishment. The girl later again decided to change her hair...

gang0fwolves:

jackpowerx:

savage-affinity:

Context to the story:

The girl cut her hair once so that she could have bangs. The mother disapproved and decided to cut off 15" of her hair as punishment. The girl later again decided to change her hair style and the above was the result; she shaved her daughters head.

Having a few personal experiences with this kind of invasive behaviour it really hurts to see someone go through these kinds of things, where the parent tries to live vicariously through their childs life, to attempt to shape them and make their decisions for them depending on what THEY would do and give their child NO independence or self expression.

Thankfully, this mother thought her actions were 100% justifiable and posted it to Facebook as a bit of a “haha, teach my kid a lesson” and has been hit with brutal recrimination from her community and has had visits from Child Protective Services.

For so many young (and older) girls their hair is their self expression, and in several months I hope this girl will have hers back.

Children are not their parent’s possessions.

Children are NOT their parents’ possessions.

CHILDREN ARE NOT THEIR PARENTS’ POSSESSIONS!!!

what the fuck

spankjonze:

this is worse than hearing my parents swear for the first time

stolenwhales:

dance-hall-dyke:

satan-is-salmon:

psychara:

onlylolgifs:

X

THIS IS THE BEST COMMERCIAL EVER

I’ve reblogged this so many times because I truly think every parent should involve themselves with what their child enjoys. 

Not to mention this is an act of solidarity. He’s saying “even if the entire world is against you, I’m on your side.” Which I think is important for a kid to know. He’s refusing to be a bully to his child, even if he doesn’t understand.

I work at Hot Topic and we had a white suburban dad in who was buying matching heavy metal/screamo band shirts for him and his teenage daughter and said “To be honest, I think this stuff sounds like garbage, but she likes it so we listen to it together and we’re going to the concert for Christmas.” And it was just really heartwarming to see him so involved in his child’s life and validating her interests.